Archive for April, 2008

Charity Gift Certificates

April 30, 2008

For the next wedding, graduation or other special celebration to which you are invited, you might have considered giving to charity instead of giving stuff. But which charity? Here are a few that are easy to find on the internet (especially helpful for those who need last-minute ideas), and that let the recipient direct the funds as they wish.

Small Children

Smaller children respond especially well to Heifer International. This well-known “teach a man to fish” charity is easy to understand and yet intriguing for both kids and adults. Heifer allows donors to give an animal, such as a heifer, a duck, flock of chicks, sheep, etc., to a needy family in one of 125 countries around the world. The recipient family learns to care for the animal, which produces food and usually enough surplus to provide a bit of income. When the animal reproduces, the family gives the offspring to a new recipient family, and so the circle of neighbor helping neighbor continues.

Heifer allows you to buy a specific animal in honor of someone. It also allows you to buy a gift card (electronic or printed) so that the recipient can choose their own animal. Kids love to go online and select an animal-and although a full heifer is $500, a flock of chicks is just $20. Find out more (like how to create a registry for others to choose when it’s time for your own special occassion) at www.heifer.org

Teachers and Other Adults

Having 5 teachers in my family, I can tell you they don’t want another mug this Christmas. Instead of a scented candle, how about a gift certificate to Donor’s Choose? Donor’s Choose skips the red tape and gets funds directly to classrooms. Classroom teachers can post requests for materials or projects. Their posting will include information about their school and the proposed lesson. Potential donors can search by keyword, zip code, project type or one of many other criteria to find a project to which they wish to contribute.

According to the Donor’s Choose web site (www.donorschoose.org), “A DonorsChoose.org gift certificate enables your recipient to fund project(s) of his/her choice and to receive the classroom acknowledgment. As the giver, you receive the tax deduction and can see the chosen proposals in your account. “

And like at Heifer International, you can create a gift registry of projects you would like others to fund.

Young Adults and Entrepreneurs

For the entrepreneurial types on your gift list, check out www.Kiva.org. Kiva works with partners in developing countries who make loans to local entrepreneurs trying to better their lives. The intermediaries screen loan applicants, oversee the loans and ensure repayment. In turn, Kiva posts the profiles of the local entrepreneurs on their web site, and allows a connection between people all over the world and the entrepreneurs in need of funding.

You can search the site to narrow down entrepreneurs by industry or by region of the globe. Personally, as some of my family grew up in the Dominican Republic, I wanted to support women who were sole breadwinners in their family. I found two that I’ve funded. One sells used clothing, which I also liked because it reused materials, which seemed environmentally wise.

As the gift giver, you can purchase Kiva gift certificates in multiples of $25. The recipient will be able to choose projects that appeal to them.

What other charities have you found that make great gifts?

Charity as a Gift to Someone Else

April 28, 2008

My father is the type who doesn’t need much, and he doesn’t want anything he doesn’t need. If he needs a sweater, he goes and buys one. When my husband posts pictures of our kids to an online gallery, my father buys a copy of each one. He doesn’t watch movies and he doesn’t want an iPod.

For a few years, I tried valiantly to come up with Christmas and birthday gifts he might appreciate: a car emergency kit that he keeps in his trunk still feels like a small victory.

He turned 60 a few years ago. Instead of a package, I sent him an email:

“I have such strong memories of you and Mom from as far back as I can remember helping other people. Habitat for Humanity, St. Vincent’s, the Dakota Center, making casseroles for the men’s shelter…the list goes on. The strong moral compass that you and Mom instilled in us has been an important and guiding force in all our lives.

“I look at our family and I’m so proud of the strong relationships we have, and the people we have become. If, as you’ve told me, you’re proud of the way we are raising your grandchildren, it’s because I had exceptional models to follow. Some people want to be nothing like their parents-I want to be just like mine.

“I know you’ve always said that if you win the lottery, you would start a foundation. Well, I’m thinking your chances aren’t so hot. But since I work in philanthropy-and I won the “Lottery of Birth”-I’m starting a family foundation with you as the President.

“On your 60th birthday, I hope it will be a symbol for you of all you have accomplished with your life, and all that you’ve still got left to contribute.

“It won’t be big, dollar-wise. But I realized recently that legacy is cumulative. By that I mean you’ve already created a legacy through your family, but that everything we do from here on out builds and contributes to the legacy of our family. I want to capture and pass on the legacy that you started, and your parents before you. I want to make sure there is a reason to talk about what we value as a family, and to spend time thinking about it and acting on it together.

“I’d like to think you’ll name Mom and the three of us as fellow Directors. I’d like to think we can have an annual meeting and maybe a volunteer activity that we can do when we all get together at Thanksgiving/Christmas. But I leave all that to you.”

Now, three years later, the adult members of our family don’t exchange Christmas presents or birthday presents. We contribute to the foundation. We all still have our personal giving, but deciding on gifts out of the foundation is a group effort.

If something like this is appealing, but you think a foundation is for the Gates and Buffets, you’ll be excited to know that many financial institutions offer a donor-advised fund that you can start with just $5,000. Ask your financial advisor about your options.

Introduction to The Philanthropic Family

April 28, 2008

Thanks for dropping by. As a brief introduction, I wanted to explain the motivation behind this blog.

Most media outlets today talk about the business of philanthropy: how much is being given, in what forms, for what social purposes. How best to improve our schools, how to hold nonprofits accountable, what can be accomplished by social enterprises and “philanthrocapitalism.” These are important conversations for philanthropy professionals.

Most of America, however, is not made of philanthropy professionals. It is made of individuals and families. The vast majority of charitable donations come from individuals. And individuals aren’t strategizing about whether providing clean water or selling insecticide-treated bed nets is a better strategy to reduce malaria.

As much as they want to improve the world, for many of these families a key motivation is to raise charitable children (my kids are only 2 and 4 and I am already thinking about this). Parents, grandparents, godparents, aunts, uncles and other influential adults want to provide an example for their children because charity is an expression of their core values. This blog will provide ideas, concrete examples and inspiration to nurture the philanthropic family. Rather than focus on the external mission of philanthropy (improving the world) it will focus on the internal mission (strengthening the family) (Thanks to Doug Mellinger for this concept).

I draw from my work with hundreds of philanthropic families through my “day job” as head of Client Services and Philanthropic Director for Foundation Source (www.foundationsource.com). But the views expressed here are mine, not official statements from Foundation Source.

Ideas for posts, great organizations and resources you’ve found, and your own experiences are welcome on this blog. It’s really about parents talking to parents so we can bring up the next generation to be philanthropic adults.