Archive for the ‘Inspirational Kids’ Category

What Gets Valued is What Gets Done

April 1, 2010

Varsity jackets have publicly honored athletes since the late 1800′s. Parade magazine started recognizing the best high school athletes in 1957. Bumper stickers have identified the cars of athletes’ families and banners have identified their homes for more than 30 years, I would guess. Accomplished athletes have always stood as heroes in America, as they did in ancient Greece and probably just about every culture in between.

And as they say, what gets measured is what gets done. And what we demonstrate that we value as a society is what children in that society aspire to be.

How many kids dream of growing up to be superstar athletes, receiving the praise and glory of adoring crowds (including their parents) when they score the game-winning points? Undoubtedly a lot more than dream of leading a major effort to reform their neighborhood schools, to improve people’s access to quality health care or to reinvigorate the practice of organic backyard gardening.

Baby Steps

But in the last few years, America has started to introduce new heroes and prominently recognize new kinds of leadership–kinds that actually contribute to our society.

  • There’s the Slate 60 that recognizes the country’s biggest philanthropists
  • On the grassroots level there’s the Serve America Act that attempts to re-invigorate the idea and practice of community service.
  • The Public Service Loan Forgiveness provisions allow someone working full-time in the public sector (including government, health care or at a 501(c)(3) organization) to have their federal student loan balance wiped out after 120 payments, half the time required for those in the private sector.
  • I’ve noticed my Chicago Tribune has started a sort of “volunteer of the week” feature. It’s true that one story recognizing someone who gives back (in one narrowly defined way) is not close to an entire sports section every day, but it’s a start.

These are just a few examples. The more we celebrate service to society (in all it’s forms), the more we demonstrate to young people that this is what we value. This is what’s important. This is where you find meaning and fulfillment in life.

The All-America High School Service Team

I’m happy to see that Parade magazine, well-known for its “All America High School Teams” recognizing young athletes, for the first time ever is putting together a new team “to recognize outstanding high school students who have made significant contributions to their communities.” For all the details, and to nominate a leader you know, visit Parade.com/service. Nominations are due April 15th.

Let’s Pick Up the Pace

We need more high-profile celebrations of young people who benefit society. Local papers could adopt their own version of an “All-Region Service Team” and school districts could have a community service Hall of Fame to complement the one they have for athletes. Reality shows could celebrate a different young person or established community leader every week.

I’ve never been one to think social change work has to be thankless and financially difficult to be meaningful. Human beings crave acceptance, which often manifests in the form of recognition and reward. Instead of fighting it and thereby limiting our recruitment pool to the self-sacrificing types, why not offer the thanks and recognition that we, as a society, should properly offer to those working for our common benefit?

Inspirational Kids: Doing a Lot When You’re Little, Part III

November 8, 2008

 

“Hi, I’m Zoe.  If you’re an adult, go away.  If you’re a kid, come closer.”

I have to admit I ignored this admonition from 9-yr. old Zoe, who is spearheading a “kid-powered revolution” on behalf of a school in Tanzania. I watched the whole video with my 4-yr old daughter. She saw how Zoe raised $200 holding a lemonade stand with her friends and collected books and toys for the school.  What a dynamo.

Want to be inspired the next generation?  Want to see some great ideas for getting young kids involved in philanthropy?  Want to help your child connect with a child in Africa in a very personal and meaningful way? 

Check out the Kids section of Epic Change for all of the above.  (And watch for Zoe to get her own Disney show. This kid is charismatic in a way you don’t see in most 9-yr. olds.)

Now I’m off to help my 4-yr. old daughter draw a picture to send to Tanzania.

“Power of Parents”

June 16, 2008

A story from the July 2008 issue of Parents magazine:

“Janice Ross was scared when she found out her 9-year-old daughter, Adrienne, would need heart-transplant surgery.  But the six-month wait for a heart–with much of that time spent in the hospital–turned out to be the biggest challenge for the Ross family.  To keep herself occupied, Adrienne decided to reaise money from her hospital room to support the National Kidney Foundation’s U.S. Transplant Games, an Olympics-like event for transplant patients.  She had a lemonade stand in the hospital hallway and gave manicures from her bed, raising nearly $600.  But she wanted to do more.  At the same time, several Wal-Mart stores in the Birmingham, Alabama, area heard her story and offered to help–and ultimately Adrienne raised nearly $31,000.  Their daughter’s generous spirit inspired Janice and her husband, Adrian, to start their own organization, the Children’s Care-A-Lot Foundation, to help families who are going througha  similar struggle.  “We want so desperately to get the word out about being an organ donor,” says Janice.  “Giving someone life–that’s the ultimate gift.”  Adrienne’s heart transplant was a success, and she’ll compete this month at the transplant games in Pittsburgh.  For more information, go to transplantgames.org.”

“Parents donated $500 to the Transplant Games in Adrienne’s name.  To nominate your organization or community service project for Power of Parents and be considered for a donation, e-mail us at advocacy@parentsmag.com.”

Driveway Moment

May 31, 2008

NPR has a thing they call “Driveway Moments.”  It’s when you’ve arrived at your destination but can’t get out of the car and go inside because you want to hear the end of the story you’re listening to.  I had a driveway moment this week, thanks to Craig LeMoult at WSHU out of Fairfield, CT.  Here’s how his story started (click to download and listen to the whole thing):

“For the last few years, high school students in Norwalk, Connecticut have been visiting a spot in the city where day laborers gather each day to wait for work. And in volunteering to help, and getting to know the laborers, the students found that many of them had medical problems that weren’t being addressed. Wednesday morning, they did something about it.”

On this particular day in May, students had arranged to make available to the day laborers a medical van staffed by local medical professionals where they could discuss HIV/AIDS and mental care, an area for dental care, and one to help with insurance.  Why mental care?  The students had surveyed the laborers and found that half reported struggling with depression, mostly as a result of family and friends back home.

As the survey implies, these students didn’t jump right into the medical fair, they’ve actually been visiting the day laborers twice a month for two years.  They starting small, bringing coffee and breakfast, then coats, hats and blankets in the winter.  When they heard complaints from workers who weren’t getting paid, they brought Connecticut Legal Services in for a wage clinic.  All right there where the workers congregate every morning, eliminating the need to find these resources, arrange transportation, miss work or find a translator.  And the students are planning another, bigger medical fair in September.

The Brien McMahon high school students are led by Bob Kocienda, who runs the Center for Youth Leadership.  I’m blown away by their involvement and dedication to these day laborers.  What an inspiring group! 

If your (kids’) high school doesn’t have a Center for Youth Leadership or a Bob Kocienda, try telling your motivated teen to Do Something

Update (6/27/06):

Bob Kocienda was kind enough to pass along the full report on the students’ survey findings and the health fair hosted by the Center for Youth Leadership.  I don’t know how to upload that report but if you’re interested in reading it just email me at sharon.l.schneider at gmail.com

Doing a Lot When You’re Little, Part II

May 9, 2008

Someone brought to my attention the Rocky Mountain News story of Ryan McLean, a 27 year-old high school teacher and swim coach who is paralyzed from the bottom of the rib cage down. On her web site, McLean says “Just recently, I was approved to travel to India to undergo stem cell treatment in hopes of regenerating some of my spinal nerves.”  The treatment involves the use of stem cells.   The school, fearing controversy, won’t allow fundraisers for the teacher. 

So some of the students took matters into their own hands.  The Rocky Mountain News, in an article Tuesday, Feb. 26, described the efforts of the swim team captain, Yasmin Moaven:

“The Cherry Creek senior is masterminding a lavish black-tie fundraiser at the El Jebel Temple in April and expects to sell 500 tickets at $100 each. She already has arranged for all the gala expenses to be donated or discounted.

“My total mentality is just getting the money so she can get there and get well, not because I support stem cells or I don’t,” Moaven said. “I don’t feel I’m doing something out of the ordinary – it just feels natural because I know she would do it for me.”

Whether you agree with stem-cell research or not, you have to be moved by the dedication these students show.  They may not be “little” but they’re certainly doing a lot.  Ryan’s blog says the fundraiser Yasmin and her friends organized in April was a huge success and raised $10,000.  More fundraisers are happening all the time.  The kids even started wearing t-shirts to school that say “Inspired by Ryan” and selling them for $12 each. 

My husband is a high school teacher.  I’d like to think that if we ever experienced this kind of tragedy, our community would come together to help us the way Cherry Creek has come together to help Ryan.  More importantly, if friends or neighbors needed this kind of help, I’d like to think I’d go to these lengths to help them.  

Doing a Lot When You’re Little

May 5, 2008

My neice Amanda is five, she’ll turn six in October.  There is a neighborhood garage sale coming up, and my sister Sandra sent this email to my family today.  I was bursting with pride:

“The reason I am writing is that Amanda has been expressing interest in having a ‘water stand’ at the garage sale. Being inspired by Sharon and her new wonderful blog, I wanted to turn the water stand portion of the garage sale into a fundraiser for the St. Raymond’s emergency fund. I wanted to know if [our family] would be interested in matching any funds raised. I have no idea if we are talking $25 or $100, but thought either way, we won’t be breaking the bank here. Bill and I will donate the water, charge $1 per bottle and all the proceeds will go to the fund.”

 

If Amanda gets involved in this one project, I bet it will lead to a lot more.  Kids get addicted to the feeling they get when they do something to help others. 

I’m proud of my neice and I’m proud that this blog may have inspired her and her mom.  Of course our family will match the donation–my dad even offered to drive up for the weekend and help work at the water stand!!


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