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You Are More Than a CheckBook

October 20, 2010

You’re so much more than money. When it comes to your ability to support causes, and ultimately bring about the world you want to see, the line item in your budget that is reserved for “donations to charity” is just the beginning of what you have to offer.

I see at least five additional categories that comprise your power to bring about positive social change.

1) You are a consumer

Linking our consumer purchasing decisions with our values is one of the most powerful tools at our disposal as a community. Think of how much you spend every week on groceries, drug store items, eating out, buying clothes, etc. In short, every one of those purchasing decisions can be a statement about the things you believe in.  Sound overwhelming? Start with a few baby steps.

  1. If you have an iphone, arm yourself to make good purchasing decisions on the go with the free goodguide app, which will allow you to type in the bar code for products on the shelf and get back a rating that will help you understand the social and environmental impact of that product.
  2. When you shop the Amazon catalog, do it through Alonovo, which pairs the search results with corporate social responsibility ratings for the company so you can include your values in your decision-making.
  3. Or better yet, shop local bricks and mortar business to help your community thrive, as advocated by The 3/50 Project
  4. Want to get started right away? Hand out fair trade chocolate this Halloween.
  5. With the holidays fast approaching, shop for gifts at stores that support the artisans and pay them a fair wage instead of exploiting cheap labor. You can find all kinds of ideas for clothes and gifts through the Case Foundation’s Dressed to Give blog series.

2) You are an investor

The old model of screening out “evil” companies is falling by the wayside. Instead, talk to your investment advisor about finding green tech or clean tech stocks or other socially responsible funds. And when you get those proxy notices in the mail, instead of pitching them, look at what the corporation is going to do and use your position as a shareholder to advocate for responsible decisions. For more info on working in partnership with corporations to address environmental concerns, check out Ceres.

Don’t have a big stock portfolio (yet)? What about your 401k? Could you talk to your HR department about including socially responsible investment choices for your retirement plan?

Old myths that you have to sacrifice performance to achieve social or environmental benefits have been easily dis-proven, although many financial professionals continue to spout this old trope. So come armed with evidence.

3) You are a person with a reputation

Have you considered how your name as a supporter and contributor might be used to lend credibility and even a “stamp of approval” to support the charities you care about?

You have “reputational capital” that might be valuable among your peers. Offer it up, via testimonials, public appearances, attending events, etc.

4) You are a person with skills and talents

If your professional expertise is accounting,  have you considered how your knowledge of cash flow and accounts receivable could help the smaller charities you care about manage their money more effectively? If you are a school teacher, have you considered whether your skills as an educator might be put to use? Lots of charities need their walls painted and their envelopes stuffed. But I always find it more rewarding to use my professional expertise to help the charities I care about, because it’s something not everyone can do for them, and it’s something they really need.

5) You are a person with a social network

Your friends and acquaintances are also more than money. If you’re not a graphic designer but you have a friend who is, you might recruit them to the cause. They could design a logo, a program for the big event, table tents, web design, etc.  If you have a twitter following, can you recruit those folks or mobilize them to take action on behalf of your favorite organizations? Putting a badge on your Facebook page or changing your icon to the charity logo lets your friends know you are passionate. And when your favorite charity asks you to take action, pass it along to your friends to magnify your effect.

More and more people are using celebrations in their lives to ask people to engage with their favorite causes.

For her 40th birthday next year, my sister has asked my, my other sister and my mom to join her in a three-day walk-a-thon to raise money for cancer research.

Or you may consider a note for your next party that goes something like this: “We look forward to celebrating our [occasion] with you. In lieu of gifts, please consider making a donation to our favorite charity.”

Informal get-together? Ask friends to bring a few canned goods or gently used clothing that you will donate to charity. It doesn’t have to  be a big production, just a thoughtful gesture.

Live an integrated life

It is no doubt easier to write a few checks than to integrate your values into so many areas of your life. But a greater consciousness about our actions and how they affect the causes we care about helps us to feel empowered and in control. Maybe you can’t write that many zeros in your donation, but we can all live a fulfilling, integrated life.

Rededicating The Philanthropic Family

October 18, 2010

I’m just coming off of maternity leave after giving birth to our third child this summer, a healthy and beautiful baby girl. My blog has been dormant for a while, since the past few months have been outrageously busy. But I wanted to “re-launch” and commit to weekly postings of the tools that I discover to help lead an “Integrated Life.”

What is An Integrated Life?

The recession has prompted many to turn inward, rejecting the quest for material things in favor of the search for meaning. Instead of treating philanthropy as a holiday check-writing exercise divorced from the rest of our lives, we are striving to integrate personal passions, professional expertise, consumer habits, vacation time and even household buying decisions into a single identity that expresses a consistent set of values.  We’re no longer content to compartmentalize our lives, sending a few dollars to poverty-stricken children in Africa while buying diamonds from the terrorists who create conditions of despair. Globalization, with all its complications, has made us aware of the impact of our buying habits and lifestyle on people half the world away. The organic and slow-food movements, the fair trade movement and the greening of America are all evidence of this understanding.

So if you’re ready to take this journey with me, subscribe to receive  updates once or twice a week with ideas, concrete examples and inspiration to help you “be the change you wish to see in the world.”

Local Food: 6 Ways to Get in the Game

June 7, 2010

Photo from Organic Life

You may have heard about the Slow Food movement, a counter to our Fast Food culture. If you’re like me, you’ve been wanting to adopt eating habits that are more consistent with your values and good intentions but haven’t quite been able to give up the “everyday low prices” on Chilean grapes offered by big box grocery stores even in the dead of winter.

The Chicago Green Festival has inspired me to finally take some action. Here are six things you can do, too, and some resources to get started. I’ve put them generally in order from easiest to most time-consuming.

  1. Find your local farmer’s market. My local farmer’s market seems to have more and more tupperware and knock-off handbags, but there are still plenty of farmers coming in from the surrounding area and bringing their freshest produce, along with vendors offering fresh pastries, artisan cheese and organic meats.  Click here to find a local farmer’s market near you (search by zip code). I don’t go to the farmer’s market looking for cheap deals, but if concern over your budget has been keeping you away, here are a few hints to save a bit: 1) try going near the end of the market when the farmer’s would rather sell for a little less than lug their produce back home; 2) make the farmer an offer and see what they’ll do for you. Today I had $14 left after picking up some peppers, asparagus and blueberries. The strawberries were going for $4.50 a container at a number of stands. I told the guy who usually offers bulk deals that I had $14 left, what could he give me for that amount? He gave me four containers, essentially buy three get one free. My darling husband turned most of the strawberries into seven jars of freezer jam that we’ll gobble up over the next month.
  2. Pick your own produce. One way small farmers supplement their income is by hosting “pick your own” consumers, who often enjoy a hayride out to the field, the enjoyment of finding the perfect apple/strawberry/blueberry/apple/pumpkin, petting the farm animals and a lunch that usually involves hot dogs as well as farm-made treats like apple cider or muffins and pies. Click here to search for a Pick Your Own farm near you. Last year for Father’s Day I found a farm with Pick Your Own strawberries (can you see a pattern here?) and we filled up two huge baskets. The fruit is usually sold by weight, and you’re paying for the experience as well as the produce, but if you’ll eat it, can it, freeze it or share it, it’s still a good deal and a good time. Plus, your kids will get a kick out of seeing the farm and it’s a whole day of family entertainment.
  3. Buy a season’s worth of produce from a local farmer. This concept is called “Community Supported Agriculture,” or CSA. The idea is that you find a farm nearby (click here for a great explanation of the concept and to search for a CSA near you) and sign up as a shareholder at the beginning of the season. Then each week your farmer will bring a box of whatever is ready to be picked. Usually the farm has a few local drop off sites.  I searched for a farm according to where they dropped off, and found one called Sweet Earth Organic Farm. I’m really looking forward to our first boxes in the next few weeks. The downside to this approach is that you pay for the whole season up front (in our case, $485). If you’re not comfortable with such a huge chunk of change, there are places like Irv & Shelly’s Fresh Picks that deliver weekly in the Chicago area, for more like $25 or $40 at a time with no season-long commitment.
  4. Grow your own food. Since it’s mid-June, you can still plant some seeds directly in the ground, but you can also buy seedlings now from your local nursery. We actually started seeds growing in containers in our basement a few weeks ago and they are ready to plant in the ground. I like to think of this as our version of a Victory Garden for the current recession. This is our first year as gardeners, so we’ll see how it goes. But I’m told that kids enjoy watering and weeding “their” garden and are more likely to want to eat stuff they helped to grow.
  5. Start a composting system (to feed that garden). So this is where most of my family thinks I have gone too far, but the truth is I get such a kick out of this that I’m showing it off to everyone. At the recent Chicago Green Festival, we bought an indoor composting system powered by worms. Yes, real live worms live in my kitchen, nestled down in a bed of newspaper scraps, cardboard, egg shells, coconut fibers and paper towels. Every few days my kids and I feed them a few hands full of kitchen scraps, including apple cores, the bits of broccoli I trimmed off and the tops of those thousands of strawberries we bought at the farmer’s market. Inside my clean, odorless bin, the worms are turning it into compost that will feed our garden in a few months. You can build these things yourself, or you can buy it like I did from Urban Worm Girl. She provides the whole set up and a great set of instructions.
  6. Become an advocate at your kids’ school for serving healthy, local food.  This is the big commitment, I think. Most schools are just doing what’s easy, and what’s affordable, and what’s been arranged for them by the district or some other supervising force. But there are more companies working to make school lunches easy, affordable and healthy, while supporting their local farmers and the local environment. You may have heard of national leader Revolution Foods. Or here in Chicago there is Organic Life, which recently had a nice article in Crain’s Business about their efforts to improve the lunches in Chicago Public Schools, and Gourmet Gorilla. As soon as school is out (since I know the administrators are currently a bit pre-occupied with end of year craziness) I’m going to reach out to the head of the pre-school program and begin a conversation about switching from the current provider, whose menu includes some form of pizza every other day, to a local, organic food vendor. Gourmet Gorilla tells me they can do pre-school lunches for $3 (same price as now) and older kids for $4 or $4.50. I am pretty confident that other parents like me will be willing to pay a little more to help their kids eat healthier every day. And when the parents start pushing, schools respond.

I expect that eating local, fresh foods is more expensive in some cases (organic definitely costs more) and cheaper in others (buying what’s in season is cheaper and so is cooking instead of eating out). But even if my monthly grocery budget went from $600 to $700, I consider this $100/month an important part of using my consumer power to help bring about the world I want to see–one with a thriving local economy, healthier kids and a healthier me, less pesticides and other pollutants in the air and water, and more of a connection to where my food comes from. And I suspect that the message I’m sending to food companies with my choices each month will have a bigger impact on changing the world than a $100 donation to a charity working on the same issues.

Chicago Green Festival This Weekend

May 20, 2010

We took our kids down to Navy Pier for the Green Festival last year, complete with a Metra train ride and then a bus ride (which I think was the most exciting part to my 3 and 5-year old kids). They made their own bath scrubbers out of a bar of soap and some wool, got to play in the dirt and taste some fun organic foods.

As a result of our visit last year, we’ve been using toxin-free, “green” cleaners we purchased at the festival to be gentler on our environment and ourselves, eating more organic and what I like to call “real” food, and this year we’ve even started growing our own vegetables so that we can have fresh, healthy food this summer.

If you’re interested in being more “green” but aren’t sure what that means, take a few hours this weekend to stroll around Navy Pier to soak up some practical ideas for living out your good intentions:

“Celebrating what’s working in our communities, the Chicago Green Festival®, a joint project of Global Exchange and Green America, showcases more than 350 diverse local and national green businesses. More than 150 renowned speakers appear for insightful panel discussions and presentations.

You’ll also enjoy great how-to workshops, a Fair Trade pavilion, a Green Home pavilion, an Organic Food and Gardening pavilion, a Community Action and Green Careers pavilion, a Sweet Spot Café, a Green Kid’s activities and delicious organic beer, wine and cuisine.”

Free Admission

From T-Mobile: “In exchange for recycling a mobile phone at the festival, you’ll get free festival admission and can enter for a chance to win tickets to Eric Clapton’s Crossroads Guitar Festival on July 26. The first 250 people recycling a phone will also receive a free organic festival T-shirt.”

Free admission also available for:

  • Volunteers - learn how to volunteer!
  • Bike riders with valet ticket – courtesy of Clif Bar’s 2 Mile Challenge
  • Students with ID
  • Youth ages 18 and under
  • City of Chicago Employees
  • Green America & Global Exchange members

$5 Discount on admission

  • Seniors 62 and over
  • Public transit riders with transfer or pass
  • Union members with valid ID

Programming Highlights

Some of the programs I would most like to see include:

  • Saturday at 11am in the Community Actions Pavilion: Victoria Kreha & Melissa Ryzy present “Shopping Your Values
  • Saturday at 3pm in the Fair Trade Pavilion: Cindy Pardo, The Fair Trader presents “Fair Trade Retail: Doing Well by Doing Good
  • Saturday at 4pm in the Green Homes Pavilion: Stephanie Davies presents “Worms Ate My Garbage… And Keep Eating! Urban Worm Girls Guide to Indoor Composting Methods
  • Sunday at noon in Rm 317: “Green Parenting 101” with Cecelia M. Ungari
  • Sunday at 1pm on the Main Stage: “Finding Your Career in the Green Economy” with Dr. Kevin Danaher
  • Sunday at 3pm in Rm 318: “My Journey to Sustainability” with Ambassador Carol Moseley Braun
  • Sunday at 4pm in Rm 318: “Dining Green Everyday” with Michael Oshman

Download the full brochure and get all the details here. And if you aren’t fortunate enough to live in Chicago, you can catch the Green Festival in Seattle in June, Washington DC in October and San Francisco in November.

Nominate an Everyday All-Star

May 10, 2010

After my previous post highlighting efforts to make heroes out of people serving the greater good (at least on par with the recognition we give athletes), I was thrilled to see these full-page ads in my Entertainment Weekly magazine:

Major League Baseball® and PEOPLE® magazine invite you to nominate individuals who have gone above and beyond to serve their community.

Maybe they mentored disadvantaged children, cared for abandoned pets or started a community garden. You tell us! You can even nominate yourself.

A total of 30 everyday All-Stars (one representing each MLB team) will be honored at the 2010 MLB® All-Star Game® in Anaheim on July 13 and one will be featured in PEOPLE magazine.

To participate, visit the website and enter information about your nominee (16 years or older) and tell us what makes him/her an everyday All-Star.

NOMINATION DEADLINE: MAY 14 I VOTE FOR THE FINALISTS: MAY 30-JUNE 20

Take a few minutes to fill out the simple nomination form and help that amazing individual you know get some well-deserved recognition.

What Gets Valued is What Gets Done

April 1, 2010

Varsity jackets have publicly honored athletes since the late 1800′s. Parade magazine started recognizing the best high school athletes in 1957. Bumper stickers have identified the cars of athletes’ families and banners have identified their homes for more than 30 years, I would guess. Accomplished athletes have always stood as heroes in America, as they did in ancient Greece and probably just about every culture in between.

And as they say, what gets measured is what gets done. And what we demonstrate that we value as a society is what children in that society aspire to be.

How many kids dream of growing up to be superstar athletes, receiving the praise and glory of adoring crowds (including their parents) when they score the game-winning points? Undoubtedly a lot more than dream of leading a major effort to reform their neighborhood schools, to improve people’s access to quality health care or to reinvigorate the practice of organic backyard gardening.

Baby Steps

But in the last few years, America has started to introduce new heroes and prominently recognize new kinds of leadership–kinds that actually contribute to our society.

  • There’s the Slate 60 that recognizes the country’s biggest philanthropists
  • On the grassroots level there’s the Serve America Act that attempts to re-invigorate the idea and practice of community service.
  • The Public Service Loan Forgiveness provisions allow someone working full-time in the public sector (including government, health care or at a 501(c)(3) organization) to have their federal student loan balance wiped out after 120 payments, half the time required for those in the private sector.
  • I’ve noticed my Chicago Tribune has started a sort of “volunteer of the week” feature. It’s true that one story recognizing someone who gives back (in one narrowly defined way) is not close to an entire sports section every day, but it’s a start.

These are just a few examples. The more we celebrate service to society (in all it’s forms), the more we demonstrate to young people that this is what we value. This is what’s important. This is where you find meaning and fulfillment in life.

The All-America High School Service Team

I’m happy to see that Parade magazine, well-known for its “All America High School Teams” recognizing young athletes, for the first time ever is putting together a new team “to recognize outstanding high school students who have made significant contributions to their communities.” For all the details, and to nominate a leader you know, visit Parade.com/service. Nominations are due April 15th.

Let’s Pick Up the Pace

We need more high-profile celebrations of young people who benefit society. Local papers could adopt their own version of an “All-Region Service Team” and school districts could have a community service Hall of Fame to complement the one they have for athletes. Reality shows could celebrate a different young person or established community leader every week.

I’ve never been one to think social change work has to be thankless and financially difficult to be meaningful. Human beings crave acceptance, which often manifests in the form of recognition and reward. Instead of fighting it and thereby limiting our recruitment pool to the self-sacrificing types, why not offer the thanks and recognition that we, as a society, should properly offer to those working for our common benefit?

25 Things You Can Do to Make a Better World for Women and Girls

December 10, 2009

I wanted to share a list that calls us to use many of the assets we have to bring about social change that I briefly described in my last post, More Than Money, Part II. It goes without saying that you have power as a donor. But beyond that, I believe your power lies in these areas:

  1. You are a Consumer
  2. You are an Investor
  3. You are a person with a Reputation
  4. You are a person with Skills and Talents
  5. You are a person with a Social Network

In fact, the list below makes me wonder if I missed a bucket: 

6. You are a Citizen.

Straight from the esteemed Chicago Foundation for Women, which is celebrating its 25th anniversary:

  1. Join our email list at www.cfw.org/email
  2. Celebrate at an upcoming 25th anniversary event
  3. Run for office or volunteer for a campaign
  4. Be–or find–a mentor
  5. Get a guy involved in women’s rights
  6. Support women-owned businesses
  7. Follow the Foundation on Twitter and Facebook
  8. Volunteer with our grantees
  9. Write letters to the editor
  10. Vote
  11. Advocate for your workplace to be fair and accessible
  12. Make a small gift every month or every paycheck
  13. Listen to young women
  14. Celebrate Women’s History Month in March
  15. Use gender-neutral language such as “humankind” and “congressperson”
  16. Take care of yourself–mind, body and spirit
  17. Contact your legislators
  18. Create a safe space for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender persons
  19. Network–it’s not just a boys’ club
  20. Don’t put down women, or yourself
  21. Attend community meetings and town halls
  22. Report discrimination and sexual harassment
  23. Honor women in your life
  24. Share this list with five friends
  25. ______________ Tell us how YOU will make the world better for women and girls.

Feel free to leave a comment with other ideas.

More Than Money, Part II

October 30, 2009

I wrote earlier today about taking inventory of your assets–beyond writing checks–to support your charitable causes. (Click here to review the checklist.) I’m still playing with these concepts, but as of now I see at least five categories that comprise your power to bring about social change.

1) You are a consumer

Linking our consumer purchasing decisions with our values is one of the most powerful tools at our disposal as a community.

If you have an iphone, arm yourself to make good purchasing decisions with the free goodguide app, which will allow you to type in the bar code for products on the shelf and get back a rating that will help you understand the social and environmental impact of that product.

When you shop the Amazon catalog, do it through www.alonovo.com, which pairs the search results with corporate social responsibility ratings for the company so you can include your values in your decision-making.

2) You are an investor

The old model of screening out “evil” companies is falling by the wayside. Instead, talk to your investment advisor about finding green tech or clean tech stocks or funds. And when you get those proxy notices in the mail, instead of pitching them, look at what the corporation is going to do and use your position as a shareholder to advocate for responsible decisions. For more info on working in partnership with corporations to address environmental concerns, check out Ceres at http://www.ceres.org

3) You are a person with a reputation

Have you considered how your name as a supporter and contributor might be used to lend credibility and even a “stamp of approval” to support the charities you care about?

4) You are a person with skills and talents

If your professional expertise is accounting,  have you considered how your knowledge of cash flow and accounts receivable could help the smaller charities you care about manage their money more effectively? If you are a school teacher, have you considered whether your skills as an educator might be put to use? Lots of  charities need their walls painted and their envelopes stuffed. But I always find it more  rewarding to use my professional expertise to help the charities I care about, because it’s something not everyone can do.

5) You are a person with a social network

Your friends and acquaintances are also more than money. If you’re not a graphic designer but you have a friend who is, you might recruit them to the cause. They could design a logo, a program for the big event, table tents, web design, etc.  If you have a twitter following, can you recruit them or mobilize them to take action on behalf of your favorite organizations? Putting a badge on your Facebook page or changing your icon to the charity logo lets your friends know you are passionate. And when your favorite charity asks you to take action, pass it along to your friends to magnify your effect.

Why Do You Give to Charity?

October 27, 2009

According to a new study by the Center on Philanthropy at Indiana University, differences in giving motivations can be explained by income and education. According to the press release issued last week:

  • Among lower-income donors (income less than $50,000), the phrases that resonated as a motivation for giving were helping to meet basic needs or helping the poor help themselves.
  • Donors with income between $50,000 and $100,000 were more likely than donors in either higher or lower income groups to say that they gave to “make the world better.”
  • Among donors with income of $100,000 or more, the phrases selected as motivations for giving included “those with more should help those with less” or “making my community better.”

For me, these phrases are too short and cold to capture my feelings on why I give to charity. My motivations are more complicated.

I won the lottery of birth. Through no virtue of my own, my soul was born into a healthy body, a loving family, a democratic nation. My life has been nothing but opportunity and I recognize that others have not been so fortunate. Out of gratitude for everything I have, and a desire to help others find opportunity in their own lives, I give to charity.

Garth Brooks wrote

I hear them saying “You’ll never change things. And no matter what you do it’s still the same thing “

But it’s not the world that I am changing. I do this so this world we know never changes me.

What I do is so this world will know that it will not change me

Charity, for me, is about living up to my inner voice, about bridging the gap between the person I am today and the person I aspire to be. And that’s also why check-writing isn’t the pinnacle of charity, no matter how big the check. In fact, it’s just the first step on a journey of a million steps.

Running Late

October 12, 2009

Last week I was struck by one of those unearned privileges of wealth and power: the right to be running late.

While visiting a nonprofit in downtown Chicago, I saw one of their donor relations folks in the hallway. In asking about her morning plans, she said she was rescheduling with a donor who ran into traffic and couldn’t make the meeting. We commiserated about the difficulties of navigating Chicago traffic for a bit and neither of us thought too much about it.

Later that same day, I was scheduled to give feedback to a job seeker about her interview skills and she was running late. By the time she walked into the room, I realized I already had a negative impression. “If she really wanted to make her life better,” I was thinking, “she would have found a way to get here on time.”

“Don’t be late” is one of the mantras of the interview process, especially at the lower end of the economic spectrum. Work out your child care issues, your transportation issues, whatever. Just don’t be late because it makes you seem unreliable, not serious, not a good team member. No excuses.

The double standard in our flexibility and mindset about overcoming everyday obstacles was glaring and uncomfortable. People in power are given leeway, presumably because whatever makes them late for the meeting, the lunch date, the deadline, is so important that we must understand the situation (especially if we need something from them). But the job seekers, the powerless folks who are hoping for that job, that chance at a better life, if they run into traffic or the bus is late, it just shows how irresponsible they are. Clearly, they should have planned to take an earlier bus but it’s okay if the wealthy donor didn’t expect to run into heavy traffic.

In my own journey to live an integrated life, I am confronting these uncharitable attitudes–my greatest obstacles– and trying to recognize them and name them out loud. It’s not that I want you to start being late for our lunch date, or that I won’t try so hard to be on  time. But I am hoping to slow my rush to judgment.


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